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Saturday, 12 June, 2010

The Best of Dances, The Worst of Dances


Dear Madonna,

I competed at the Michigan Classic last weekend and achieved my first "picket fence" win. That's when all the judges have you in first place so that the number 1's line up like a picket fence....and that was despite a pretty spectacular error.

Same event - same day, even - I danced in another division and was placed DFL, or Dead F***ing Last. That was another first for me and I'm owning it - which is, of course, easier to do (as Michelle said) when I have a Picket Fence to hide behind - but being at both ends of the spectrum does speak to the immediacy of dance, and how it is appreciated (and judged ) so much in the moment.

Was I better - or worse - dancer from one contest to the next?  Of course not. And as much as I appreciate the feedback from judges and coaches, the biggest trophy I received all weekend was from my partner in the Novice Hustle Jack & Jill who told me - very sincerely - how much he enjoyed dancing with me.

That trumps a Picket Fence any day.

Ciao,
Julie

21 comments:

The Pixy Princess said...

So bizarre! Were they the same judges?
Is that a common way to grade dancers? I'd imagine that it would nerve wracking for newer dancers.. perhaps even deter them from trying out?

SadeRa盈君iford0412 said...

Offence is the best defence.......................................................

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張怡 said...

成熟,就是有能力適應生活中的模糊。....................................................................

江婷 said...

一棵樹除非在春天開了花,否則難望在秋天結果。.................................................................

于庭 said...

當一個人內心能容納兩樣相互衝突的東西,這個人便開始變得有價值了。............................................................

吳婷婷 said...

It takes all kinds to make a world.............................................................

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只用微笑說話的人,才能擔當重任。................................................

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童祖如童祖如 said...

良言一句三冬暖,惡語傷人六月寒。......................................................................

家唐銘 said...

好的開始並不代表會成功,壞的開始並不代表是失敗..................................................

恩宛玲如 said...

人應該做自己認為對的事,而不是一味跟著群眾的建議走。..................................................

建邱勳 said...

Quality is better than quantity.............................................................

偉曹琬 said...

耐心是一株很苦的植物,但果實卻很甜美。..................................................

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所有的資產,在不被諒解時,都成了負債............................................................

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